LOVE AND ABRAHAM’S OFFERING
I have often heard people say that love is 50/50, give and take.
It is an expression widely used and will, without exception, produce nods of approval from all within listening distance when the subject is raised.
Most people have their own recipes and guidelines for obtaining love and staying in love.
Libraries and corner shops are awash with publications and magazines giving readers additional advice on how to love and how to boost and maintain matrimonial bliss. Harmony within these relationships is probably the number one topic. Yet, if the truth be known, most couples do not know how to love. The proliferation of guidance counselling classes bears testimony to this, not to mention divorce and breakups.
Women’s magazines often have short tests for the reader to take, in order to find out if their relationship stands up to modern scrutiny.
The reader ticks or crosses a box at the end of every question, and at the end of the test, there is a score, which tells you if you are compatible or not. Some even offer quick fixes, should your score be on the low side.
I have always had a problem agreeing with those who claim love or marriage is a 50/50 arrangement, simply because the equation is deeply flawed.
- Because no-one mentions what the partners do with the remaining 50% they have.
- Because it characterises the I, I, I, and me, me, me nature mankind possesses from birth.
It has been said that: of all human passions, love is the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously the head, the heart and the senses.
The Bible tells us that God judges the heart, whilst man judges the outward appearance.
There is no doubt that the subject of love is probably the number one topic in most people’s thoughts, affecting everyone, reaching, as it does, deep down into the very fabric of life itself. Sadly, though the evidence stacks up against those who claim to know all about the subject, as modern methods and cures for all ills lead people away from realising that true love is:
a feeling to be learned.
To put it another way: we are not born to love.
Young children provide ample evidence of this little appreciated fact of life. Watch how they interact with other children when there are toys to be shared!
I want it! You can’t have it! It’s mine!
Sadly, many grown-ups act the same way, with the only give-away, being their age.
Another aspect of life, which incidentally, is inextricably linked with love is the arena of forgiveness.
This is another of life’s lessons that needs to be learned.
How to forgive and when to forgive are questions which mankind struggles with. They go hand in hand with feelings and together play havoc with emotions.
A young boy was asked for his definition of love, and this was his reply:
Love is a feeling that you feel when you feel like you are going to feel a feeling that you have never had before.
Another little boy on being asked what forgiveness was, replied:
It is the scent that flowers give when they are trampled on.
I don’t know if this little boy realised just how profound his answer was.
The scent he speaks about, can be likened to the sweet-smelling savour that went up to God when Jesus Christ was trampled on.
Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling savour. Ephesians 5:1-2
At this point I would introduce you to an excerpt of the writings of a great Bible scholar, the late Mr A. M. Ross. (Reproduced by permission)
LOVE AND ABRAHAM’S OFFERING
It is impossible for the natural mind to understand or appreciate the meaning of true love. Human love, at its best, is not even a small imitation of true LOVE.
When God created man, He made him in His own image, and His own likeness. Just think of how jealous you and I are of our image, especially if we have reason to think it is above average.
But God made man in His own image, and God sought fellowship with His creature. However, God recognised that it was not good for man to be alone, so determined that He would make a help meet for him.
God knew, that the help meet would be the physical, emotional and mental compliment of man, and would by the nature of things even tend to usurp God’s rights in the realms of love and of the spirit. But such is the love of God that He did not resent Eve’s coming between Him and Adam.
God would continue to work for both their good, and would teach them the place that was rightly His, and look for a reciprocating love in them.
Luke 10:27 – Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.
God never found a man who would let Him come between himself and the object of his love until Abraham learned to walk with God.
Then God gave Abraham the promise of a son. And for 25 years Abraham waited for that promise to be realised. When that son came, he was called Isaac, and all God’s other promises to Abraham were wrapped up in this PROMISED CHILD.
Then came God’s master stroke.
How like God was Abraham?
Would he stand the test?
Genesis 22:2 – Take now thy son, thine only son Isaac, whom thou lovest, and get thee into the land of Moriah; and offer him there for a burnt offering upon one of the mountains which I will tell thee of.
Then I read these amazing words:
Genesis 22:3 – And Abraham rose up early in the morning, and saddled his ass, and took two of his young men with him, and Isaac his son, and clave the wood for the burnt offering, and rose up, and went to the place of which God had told him.
What pathos is in these words.
I see the angels of God straining as they gaze over the ramparts of heaven at this sight.
A MAN HAS, WITHOUT COMPLAINT, WITHOUT QUESTION, RISEN EARLY TO DO THE WILL OF GOD, WHEN THAT WILL COMES BETWEEN HIM AND THE GREATEST OBJECT OF HIS LOVE.
- Moses couldn’t do that, he talked back to God when he was being sent into Egypt to bring out the children of Israel.
- Jonah wouldn’t do that, he ran in the opposite direction when God wanted to DELIVER Nineveh and Jonah wanted to DESTROY it.
- Peter didn’t do that when God was sending him to the Gentiles with the Gospel, he said: Not So Lord.
- Paul didn’t do it, when God gave him a thorn in the flesh. HE THREE TIMES BESOUGHT THE LORD THAT IT MIGHT BE REMOVED.
Now tell me my friend, would you do it?
All God’s promises were in that son.
All Abraham’s hopes were in that son.
God said Isaac was going to have children, and these children would be the source of universal blessing.
Now God is saying: Slay Isaac!
To Abraham, God could not make a mistake.
If Abraham did not know what God was doing, God did; and He was not making a mistake.
If God could ever make a mistake the whole universe would cease to exist, it was as simple as that.
I think I see the faces of the angels in heaven as Abraham lifts the knife to plunge it into his son Isaac.
They are ecstatic, this is beyond anything they could have conceived:
A MAN LOVING GOD ABOVE ALL ELSE, AND DOING HIS WILL WITHOUT QUESTION.
But that one act did not only reveal the faith and love of Abraham, it revealed:
THE HEART OF GOD
Abraham never drove that knife home, but God drove His point home:
That TRUE LOVE IS COSTLY.
WHAT ABRAHAM DID IN TYPE, GOD DID IN TRUTH.
(A.M. Ross)